Other reasons why people tolerate bad behavior.
1. Financial reasons- You allowed abuse because you are dependent on them ... financially that is.
2. Relationship reasons - If the person is your husband or your children ... you tolerate their bad behavior because setting limits will fuel more trouble in paradise, more toxicity, and more dysfunction.
3. Unresolved phallic stage and childhood traumas- please refer to Sigmund Freud's psychosexual development, especially the issues of separation anxiety.
4. Fear of being alone - you put up with bad behavior lest it will mar your relationship. Keeping gagged and mum about disrespect and how they treated you ... to you is a far better option than being given a cold shoulder, ignored, or separated.
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