What happens in a household where there is an entitled husband and an entitled wife? Will there be a Clash of the Titans or a battle and a clash of egos?
I can't imagine a scenario where a husband believes his wife owed him something ... and the wife feels the same. The party that is giving the service or acts of assistance resents this. We expect fireworks and a feeling of angry displeasure on both sides ... they will feel mistreated or wronged ... and feel antipathy because they were forced to do something they didn't like.
They will have that mistaken notion that they were not loved, or that they are being used or taken advantage of ... or what they are getting from their spouse is conditional love ... only because of the things they can give them.
Take the husband for instance ... if one of the many reasons you marry is that you don't have to worry anymore about washing your clothes or cooking a meal for you ... that's a toxic expectation and an entitlement.
If you are a wife and pursue a relationship with someone for the sole purpose of sharing his wealth or fame ... I also smell entitlement.
Are you the husband who expects changing the baby's dirty diapers and preparing milk formula is solely the work of the wife? Or are you the wife that expects the husband to bring home the moolah ... as you sit at home playing with your cellphones?
Both should work as a team ... and feeling entitled should never creep into your beds ... destroying your relationship and your marriage.