Di Natutoto

We don't encourage our children to have perfect life.  Because we know life isn't perfect ... and no one is. I allow my children to fail and make mistakes  ... BUT I want them to use these lapses as some kind of eye-opener that when confronted with the same situations in the near future... REPEATING the same mistake is not acceptable. It is not an option.

When you tripped and fall because you did not tie your shoelaces ... make it an opportunity to devise means and ways so falling will not happen again. After the fall, CHANGE is expected in the person as people banked on him that he needed to be careful. You need to grow and mature - otherwise kung paulit-ulit na lang ang mga nangyayari iyon ay dahil HINDI KA NAGTANDA ... just like what the song goes "DI KA TALAGA NATUTO".

Tama ... HINDI LANG SIYA natutong MAKINIG! DI BALE NANG PAULIT-ULIT ANG PROBLEMA.

It's All A Facade

Bago mo ibabad sa suka at ikula sa  detergent ang MALI ng iba, be sure ITAMA mo muna ang mga MALI sa pagkatao ninyo.

Lahat ng PAMAMALINIS at PAGMAGALING mo ay FACADE lang pala ... eh masahol ka pa sa taong pinupuna mo.

Question That Don't Have Answers

Another question that needs an answer.

Sa mga tao na NAGMAMALINIS at walang dungis at bahid ... ano bang detergent at beauty soap or shampoo ang ginagamit ninyo? 

Gusto naming malaman para makabili rin kami. Yon bang konting kuskos ayos na?  Or hindi kaya yong sabon na velvety smooth at ginagawa pang porcelana ang balat? Or deodorant that won't let you down?

Sala Sa Init ... Sala Sa Lamig

 

Defensive or Offensive?

If somebody corrected you, you either become DEFENSIVE by giving him a piece of your mind ..or you become OFFENSIVE by giving him a punch from the behind. 

One thing is clear ... boy you have an ego problem as big as the world.

Somebody has to deflate that bloated ego, the excess air in your head makes you feel suffocated and asphyxiated by harmless criticism.  You don't need to feel gagged or strangled by the pressures created by Narcissus (your narcissistic tendencies) and your pride that is so high, you become unreachable.

Let It GO

Ego ...  or BIG EGO to be exact is said to be one of the reasons why the relationship doesn't last ... be it a father-son relationship ...  or maybe just between a man and a woman so much in love. When an inflated ego takes position ... it occupies too much empty space ... it creates a distance between the two.

So when the father said: "Son you need to find a job ... so you will know the value of money." If the son's response is: "Do I really have to do that? Work can wait ... I am still enjoying the free money I am getting from you ..." then you know EGO has destroyed a suppose to be an insightful conversation.

The son needs to delete the"e" ... and let it "GO".

Know Your Monsters

Wise people know they can benefit from constructive criticism. If no one is there to remind us ... we can be drenched and soaked in our mistakes ... just floating and drifting aimlessly in the vacuum...  and not learn anything from them. 

Review and study yourself and discover the BEAST in you. Be HUMBLE to accept them ... and be HONEST to negate them when they strike.

Constructive Criticism

Bakit may mga taong ayaw magbago? Allergic sila sa mga puna at constructive criticism na sana ay gawin nilang gabay sa pagtahak sa buhay. Ayaw nila ang mga reminders na paulit-ulit, at recycled at kung narinig  na nila ang puna mo noon ... ayaw na nilang marinig ito ngayon.  Pag pinuna mo ulit buong ningning nilang sabihin ito sa iyo. Ayaw nilang mapuna, pero mabilis pa sa alas kuatro kung magpuna sa iba, BASTA HINDI SIYA.

Hindi kaya nila alam kaya sinasabi mo ito ng paulit-ulit ... na para ka nang sirang plaka (katulad ng pangungutang)  ... dahil paulit-ulit din nilang ginagawa ito ng walang habas without even realizing na lubog na sila sa utang?