Check Yourself In The Mirror

Isipin ninyo, tuwing may problema ka ba palaging iba ang sinisisi mo at hindi ikaw? Dapat marunong kayong manalamin ... because the mirror doesn't lie ... para makita ninyo agad ang problema ... na ang problema ay nasa harapan lang naman ninyo. Palinga-linga pa kayo at nagmaang-maangan. Unfair naman yong ikaw ang nagtanim at nagpunla ng problema ... pagkatapos iba ang aani at magsalo ng sakit dala nito.

Tapos na ang pagbulag-bulagan ay pagbingi-bingihan.  It is time to own up the problem that you created.

Self Made Men

I have only one thing to say about people who have achieved success or prominence through their own efforts. Self-made men are the men who, under peculiar difficulties and without the ordinary help of favoring circumstances, have attained knowledge, usefulness, power, and position.

No rich parents ... No connections ... No Padrinos. Just independent, driven, hard-working, and the determination to succeed are the most basic qualifications. 

Ask yourself ... do you have these qualities? Or are you one of those people who have imbued in themselves that the best way to a better life is ASKING FROM PARENTS? No sweat huh! Are you happy with that? What happens then if your parents are gone ... what now?

This is definitely a RUDE AWAKENING!

The Making of A Self-Made Man

Self-made men start from scratch.  They start with a zero in their pocket and all they have are their dreams and ambition and the energy to succeed.

Children of rich parents had six zeroes digit money in their pockets but removed the rich parent from them - and everything starts crumbling down ... all that is left is a dreamless, indolent, and slothful bunch with no desire to work. 

Self-made men are not born or made. They are self-made.

Pinoy Commentaries

Ang PAGPATAWAD ay peanuts lang naman at hindi mahirap ibigay. Pero pag paulit-ulit na ginawa ang mga kasalanang hindi naman deserve ng tao at siya ang pinagbuntongan mo ng sisi ... naka-semento na sa puso ninuman yong sakit at galit.  OK lang naman silang makinig sa problema ng iba. Pero yong isisi mo sa iba at ipamukha mo na that they are part of the problem na hindi naman sila ang gumawa kundi ikaw, aba ibang usapan na iyan,

Kung NASIRA NA ANG TIWALA (na pati safety ng tao ay iniisip na  niya tuwing kakatok ka ... at baka may gagawin ka) malaki na talaga ang lamat ng hindi ninyo pagkaintiendihan. Mahirap na itong maibabalik pa. And no amount of SORRY can bring it back.

Nobody wants na MAGTANIM ng galit sa kapwa ... pero ISIPIN MO ... may mga taong hindi rin madaling maka-let-go at MAKALIMOT.