Smooth Operator

I know a guy who is a smooth operator. He is shrewd, sly, and guileful. He can fib, scheme, manipulate, and treats you like dirt.

And because he is cunning and calculating he manages to make the hurt he created to seem like it was your fault.

Blaming Others

Blaming others makes you feel better about yourself? You can start your day blaming others, but the reality is ... your successes or failures are totally your own ... not our responsibility.

Blaming others for your failures is too infantile.

Selective Blindness

What an irony.  There are people I know who see the faults of OTHERS in an instant, and they often jump to conclusions in haste without investigation.

But they have selective blindness when it comes to THEIR OWN faults ... they see your flaws but not their own. On rare occasions when the fault points in his direction they demand our patience and understanding.

It is Bizarre!

It is bizarre when you think everything that happens in your life is somebody's fault.

And it is more bizarre if you hold grudges against people you blamed, for things you said and did to them.

You Want A Good Life?

Stop pointing fingers at your life's hiccups in the wrong directions.

Burp the excess air in your stomach (including your head) and belch.  And don't forget to move that "arse" around and start the exact good life you always wanted to have.