Defensive or Offensive?

If somebody corrected you, you either become DEFENSIVE by giving him a piece of your mind ..or you become OFFENSIVE by giving him a punch from the behind. 

One thing is clear ... boy you have an ego problem as big as the world.

Somebody has to deflate that bloated ego, the excess air in your head makes you feel suffocated and asphyxiated by harmless criticism.  You don't need to feel gagged or strangled by the pressures created by Narcissus (your narcissistic tendencies) and your pride that is so high, you become unreachable.

Let It GO

Ego ...  or BIG EGO to be exact is said to be one of the reasons why the relationship doesn't last ... be it a father-son relationship ...  or maybe just between a man and a woman so much in love. When an inflated ego takes position ... it occupies too much empty space ... it creates a distance between the two.

So when the father said: "Son you need to find a job ... so you will know the value of money." If the son's response is: "Do I really have to do that? Work can wait ... I am still enjoying the free money I am getting from you ..." then you know EGO has destroyed a suppose to be an insightful conversation.

The son needs to delete the"e" ... and let it "GO".