Something Is Wrong Part !

Check this out.   You may have been showing signs of a personality disorder and you did not even know it. Abnormal is defined as something deviating from normal or the usual. Other terms used as synonyms are: unnatural, irregular, anomalous, aberrant, and deviant.

Abnormal behavior describes a state, condition, or behavior that is unusual or different from what is considered normal.

There are different types of personality disorders.  To an amateur or layperson, it is immaterial discussing it en toto or delve into the subject deeply. This post is just a guide when you see unusual signs in yourself or a family member and be reminded that something is quite off.  

Just like physical conditions or diseases such as stroke or diabetes, it is a must that a layman will be able to recognize alarm signs that need immediate attention, any delay can mean fatal or total disaster.

The same thing to human behavior, everybody needs to be equipped with the knowledge to identify what has deviated in you emotionally, behaviorally, and psychologically and this includes feelings, emotions, thoughts, and behavior.

Behaviorally these are the flag signs that need to be included in your daily personal bodily and mental checks.

1. Something is wrong if you have difficulty trusting others and believing somebody is plotting something bad against you. You always interpret danger in every situation and you are in constant watch of people around you.  You don't see good in people ... there is always something you can criticize. (Paranoid Personality Disorder)

2. Something is wrong if you are totally dependent on other people with your needs. Relying on somebody to make a decision for you is a Hallmark sign. You let others be responsible for you financially and in other areas. You dilly-dally most of the time with your decisions because of some irrational fear or some feeling of mistrust. The person tends to be a "yes person" too submissive for comfort and he finds himself in meetings or seminars agreeing to an opinion or ideas he hates and loathes. (Dependent Personality Disorder)

3. Something is wrong if you are trying to avoid social interaction or scenarios where you have to spend a chunk of your time with others ... such as at work or parties.  In a class reunion, he hates being asked what profession he is in and feels belittled when topics about achievements were raised. He is overly sensitive with comments and thought the class reunion was a conspiracy ... where achievers flaunt what they have and owned. (Avoidant Personality Disorder)