Responding to Netizen's Comments

Netizen's Comment:

Regarding Chris Tan's Video which one would you follow, principles or personalities? What is the importance of having principles in our lives? How do your personal principles affect the way you live?

Response:

Having core principles isn't only important in the workplace. As an individual, it's important to develop your own guiding standards so that no matter what life or work comes your way, you know what you believe in, what you stand for, and what leads your daily decisions.

Principles are your blueprint in life. If your blueprint is not clear, you will have no direction. You end up following the person you admire or idolize. It helps guide you on how to make the right choices. because if you don't have basic principles embedded in you, you end up following the politician or the movie star or somebody in the neighborhood that has taken your fancy.

When you act or speak against your morals, you begin to experience guilt and shame. You feel guilty about your actions, which can cause you to feel ashamed of yourself. Sticking to your moral principles helps you live a life you are proud of. 

Following a personality can help you guide your life too especially if they are doing the right thing. But one should be smart enough to know what is good and bad. If your idol has the habit of lying or stealing don't jump on the bandwagon and follow their examples. And don't be apologists for them, or cover their traces especially when you knew they are on the wrong side of the road. And worst is voting for them when there are available options more capable and more responsible.

“Your time is limited, don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living the result of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.

Stop trying to please other people or be someone else. It’s better to be an original version of yourself than an exact duplicate of someone else.

Learn from criticism. Be open to criticism but don’t be affected by it. Criticism is meant to help you be a better person. Learn from it.

Don't be afraid to quit the things that don't serve your path. Do the things you love, because life is too precious to spend it doing anything else. If you don't enjoy something, then don't do it. Spend your time and energy on things that bring you fulfillment and happiness.

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Responding to Netizen's Comments

Netizens Remarks: 

In the video of Chris Tan, PRINSIPYO VIDEO KO, INAYOS KO NA he mentioned  why BBM supporters despite knowing FEM history, (on stealing, killing and lying)  still cling to the fact that BBM can't go wrong and he is being worshipped like he is some kind of a saint or a god.  He said the term for this condition is COGNITIVE DISSONANCE.  Can you explain in simpler terms what it means and if you can give example ... the better.

Response:

Cognitive dissonance describes the discomfort experienced when two cognitions are incompatible with each other. Cognitive dissonance theory postulates that an underlying psychological tension is created when an individual’s behavior is inconsistent with his or her thoughts and beliefs.

That feeling of mental discomfort about using plastic bags is an example of cognitive dissonance. This is because your beliefs are clashing with your actions or behavior. You believe that humans need to protect the environment, but you still use plastic bags. The internal conflict that this causes makes you feel bad.

Another common example of cognitive dissonance is the rationalization that takes place when people dieting “cheat.” How many times have you committed to healthy eating when a doughnut, muffin, or another delicious-looking food item threatened to take you off course? Then you started to rationalize, “Eh, it's only one doughnut."

So when presented with the grim picture of the atrocities that happened during the Martial law, a BBM supporter has this as his way to rationalize the situation,  "That was the father ... the fault of the father is not the fault of the son."

And this is precisely the reason why a BBM supporter gets upset when you challenge what they hold most closely. Mental conflict occurs when how they see BBM as a person are contradicted by new information.

BBM supporters seek to preserve their current understanding of BBM by rejecting, explaining away, avoiding new information, or convincing themselves that no internal conflict really exists.

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- Anak ni Erap: JAKE EJERCITO

- Anak ni Jonvic: ROBYN REMULLA

- Anak ni General Ver: WANNA VER

- Angkan ni Mrs. Marcos: ARANETA and LEDESMA

- Anak ni Loren: LORENZO LEGARDA LEVISTE

-Anak ni Karla: DANIEL PADILLA

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