Nursery Rhymes

Kung ikaw ay "CURIOUS" lang sa ngayon sa iyong  pagiipon.

Gawing "SERIOUS" ang pagse-save mula ngayon ... at sa mahaba pang panahon!

Just Help Yourself

These are merely suggestions ... so you will have a complete overhaul of your HABITS ... you will never know if it might help change your life.

-Batang Quiapo, The Iron Heart, Dirty Linen - You need more REST and SLEEP.

-Enabling Friends - You need your FAMILY.

-Cigarette and Liquor - You need HOBBIES or play SPORTS.

-Eat All You Can - You need VEGGIES and HEALTHY FOOD.

-Korean Novela, TV - You need EXERCISE & WORK-OUTS.

-Whining and Complaining - You need PATIENCE.

-Walang Dungis Personality - You need good SELF ESTEEM and the ability to OWN MISTAKES.

-Blaming Others- You need to take RESPONSIBILITY and ACCOUNTABILITY and the ability to get tough ... when the tough gets going.

Kung may Gusot ... May Lusot

If there is a will ... there is a way.  Kung may gusot ... may lusot.  We are given the knowledge and the freedom to make our choices at maghanap ng paraan para maiwasan ang pagkamali at sa lahat ng bagay na gusto nating bagohin.

Kung may bisyo ka ... make yourself productive by indulging in a hobby and how about keeping yourself busy?  Kung ikaw ay nangungutang ... baka naman mayroon ka pang kasamang nangungutang din at sabihin mo ... hindi lang naman ako eh ... marami kami. Pwes iwasan mo sila ... pronto.  

Kung wala kang trabaho ... hindi kaya ... ayaw mo lang, kasi hindi ito ang trabaho na bagay sa estado ng buhay mo? Or may trabaho ka na ... iniwan mo lang because of the flimsiest reasons you can invent para hindi makatrabaho? Or baka  masyadong  ka lang pihikan ... at mas gusto mong magiging manager agad kahit wala ka namang experience. 

Mas pinipili mo yong choices na mahirap abotin ... para kung hindi ka natanggap,  gawin mo itong rason later on? Wala kasi akong experience. Or kung hindi ka natuloy ang application mo sa Saudi... sisihin mo pa ang parents mo na broke na broke at gawin mo silang escape goat at sabihing "hinaharang kasi nila ang application ko. Bakit kung kailan ako nagplanong magabroad ... ay doon pa sila walang pera. Sila ang dapat sisihin at hindi ako."

Bakit palagi na lang may sinisisi? Bakit hindi uso ang culpability at accountability sa iyo? Ikaw na walang bahid ... matuto ka naman sumalo ng sisi kung kinakailangan. You always get scot-free ... and it is getting boring and redundant.

O Bakit Kaya?

O bakit kaya ... iba ang sinisisi kapag merong kang kapalpakang ginagawa?

Kung ikaw ay nalulong sa masamang bisyo ... kasalanan ng parents mo kasi nasa abroad. Kung ikaw ay nagbubulakbol ... sisihin ang mama at papa at busy sila at puro na lang trabaho. Kung wala kang trabaho ... aba eh may pandemic kasi ... eh kung mahawa ba naman. At kung wala kang pambayad sa bills ... sisihin mo ang metro at ang bilis ng patak? 

Did you ever notice na palagi na lang iba ang puno't dulo at ang sinisisi ninyo sa mga masasamang nangyayari sa buhay mo?  At ikaw naman ang kapitagpitagan ... so immaculately white ... walang bahid ... at biktima lang ng pagkakataon?

Stop Blaming Others

"To every problem ... there is always a solution.  If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem."

And if you are the problem ... huwag ka nang manginvolve ng iba. That's the most honorable thing you can do ... nalulunod ka na ... hihilain mo pang pababa ang iba? Or gusto mo lang i-involve sila ... para may sisihin ka?

Nursery Rhymes

I would rather na ordinaryo lang ang ating hitsura at dating ... pati na ang porma,

Basta umaapaw ang bankbook ... at pumuputok ang laman ng bulsa.

Kaysa naman mag-pretend tayo at umastang mayaman at maraming kaibigan,

Yon pala nakapila ang mga naniningil ... dahil maraming pinagkautangan.

From What I See

Family is not about giving in to your son or daughter even when you feel they are on the wrong side of the road. Giving in is enabling and you become an accomplice and an accessory to what your son has become.

Family is mustering enough courage to mirror your son's image and show him what kind of a nincompoop he has transformed when he decided this life's direction.