Gaslighters Under The Microscope

 

You Are A Gaslighter If:

1. You always offer to interpret things for the victim.

2. You call the victim crazy to others.

3. You are trying to confuse the victim

4. You try to isolate them and hold things back from friends and family,

5. You make them less confident in what they are saying

6. You make them feel, everything they did was wrong

7. You made them second-guess themselves.

8. You blame them that they are not good enough and can't do anything right.

Commonly Used Phrases Used By Gaslighters To Condition Something Is Wrong With You.

1. You always remember things wrong/differently.

2. I am interpreting things for you ... because of you

3. You have a penchant to twist things around.

4. You are so melodramatic/sensitive

5. You sound crazy/insane

6. You always have the wrong points of view/mindset

7. You are overthinking/overreacting

8, Put up or shut up. You're putting words into my mouth

9. Are you okay? You sound confused/sick.

10. You seemed unsure of what you are saying

11. You always say "SORRY" ... and apologize a lot.

12.  I know you are mad/sad ... chill ... in one hour or two you will feel better.