The more chances you give to an erring loved one, the lesser regard they will give to you as a person. They will brush off the high parameters you have stipulated because they know you will melt like ice cream and give them again another chance.
They see you vacillating like a pendulum and more often than not they expect that you can't just leave them like that. They feel cozy in their seats knowing that you will "forgive" them anyways... and you will "forget" in the long run.
A word of advice? Don't let people become complacent and lose respect for you ... just because you are a nice person who has the habit of giving excuses and accepting behavior that you would not normally accept.
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