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Friday, October 20, 2023

Pageant Result: Mr. International 2023 -Philippine Version


 The winners of Mr. International 2023- Philippine version are from left to right: Angel Olaya - Argentina Third Runner Up, Austin Cabatana - Philippines - First Runner Up, Jose Antonio Campos Calle - Spain - Mr. International 2023 - Winner, Tamichael Watson - Jamaica - Second Runner Up, Abdul Rahman Lee - Malaysia -Fourth Runner Up. The pageant was held at the Baguio City Convention Center last October 20, 2023.

Dumb Question

 For those who want to lighten the mood, these funny stupid questions to ask are perfect for you. These questions will help you start a fun.


Question: Kung ang pancit ay pampahaba ng buhay bakit hindi nireresita ito ng doctor?

(Bakit nga kaya? Was it because ... your question is a dumb question?)

Dumb Questions

For those who want to lighten the mood, these funny stupid questions to ask are perfect for you. These questions will help you start a fun.


Sa mga beauty pageants ... basing on FACE VALUE ... bakit yong hindi mo inaasahan ... ay siya naman ang mga paborito ng mga judges and eventually becomes the WINNER? And the deserving goes home empty-handed?

(Using the line of the song ... Love Comes From The Most Unexpected Places ,,, The Winner Comes From The Most Unexpected Candidates)

Thursday, October 19, 2023

Comparison


 Question: What is the difference between emotional maturity and emotional immaturity

Answer: One can usually see the glaring difference based on different dimensions

1. Ability to control their emotions - Emotionally mature people know how to respond to situations responsively while emotionally immature people act on impulse. Their response is foolhardy with a devil-may-care attitude.

2. Reactions - EM people approach the problem calmly ... examine the situation make a thorough analysis of what to do and think of the possible outcome when he has chosen their options.  EI people overreact to MINOR things and cannot contain their raging emotions.  After creating a scene, he regrets the blatant display of juvenile temper tantrums and thinks he could have handled the situation more lightly.

3. Criticism and Feedback - EM is open-minded to criticism. They are open to new ideas and suggestions and they are willing to change and can accept that they are wrong.  If EM is RECEPTIVE ... EI on the other hand is DECEPTIVE ... at times defensive and often feels they were attacked when there is a criticism ... as he sang the refrain of ... Me and Me Against The World.

4. Flexibility - EM can step outside of his comfort zone and is willing to see what is going on on the other side of the fence. They are friendly and welcoming to other points of view and mindset.  EI however is rigid, oftentimes UNBENDING ... and UNYIELDING. Individual differences to them are annoying.

5. Empathy - EM has the ability to place themselves in the psychological shoes of another person. They are able to understand and appreciate the feelings of another. EI can not empathize. More often than not they are stingy with compassion.  Something is lacking from them... so how can you expect them to share your grief?

6. Accountability - EM take responsibility for their actions. They own their work and doesn't make excuses if something goes wrong.  EI is a piece of work. If there is trouble, instead of being honest and confess what happened, they either keep mum ... or go into hiding.

7. Healthy Boundaries - When EM set healthy boundaries, they are forthright saying: "This is what I want ... and this is what I hate." Setting boundaries protects our personal space. Setting boundaries with EI can be exhausting and challenging. The first thing he will say to you is: "You hate me this much and you are setting boundaries?

8. Conflicts - EM usually works towards the resolution of the conflict. EI think time will heal the wound ... no matter how long.  He'd rather leave the conflict hanging ... and think the conflict and the ill feelings will pass.

9. Relationship - EM usually makes joint decisions and works together towards relationship goals. On the other end of the relationship with EI is like living a life on an eggshell. These individuals are not just mercurial, their moods are see-saw like.  They are volatile and fluctuating as they vacillate from one extreme to another in how they deal with others.  

So you never feel like you can relax around them—turmoil seems to always be either around the corner, a small incident, or one misspoken word away. You have to tread lightly, as if on eggshells, just to survive.

A Word to The Wise


 

Wednesday, October 18, 2023

Emotional Immaturity

 


Psychologists view emotional maturity as "a high and appropriate level of emotional control and expression."

 Emotional immaturity is the exact opposite ...  so when one can't tone down the decibels when he tries to express his emotions (like when he is angry he becomes verbally assaultive ... or he resorts to violence ... when he is frustrated ... his emotional crutch is crying) when he let go of his emotions ... its -free-flowing - it is without restraint and there is no self-control. 

At times when he is he is angry - his bodily reactions are over the top and professionals see those overt reactions as disproportionate to the stimuli ...  either it is a small or a big reaction to a situation ... hence not appropriate. Their feelings of joy, happiness, anger, and sorrow are either stronger or weaker than average. For instance, the stimulus is the death of his favorite pet ... or an ex-girlfriend snubbing him at a party ... if he goes ballistics and if the resultant behavior is undue and bordering on the extreme ... like breaking items of furniture ... such reactions are exorbitant and unnecessary.

Your observation of his emotional responses is the hallmark sign you are dealing with an emotionally immature individual. You will observe his feelings can easily be jacked up ... or it can go through the roof ... in the same way a child would react. They have no shame in throwing unpleasant and disruptive behavior and outbursts ... his crying spells are on cue ... and when angry he can show childish and juvenile antics when things do not go the way they want them to.

Emotionally immature people are often seen as lacking emotional sensitivity and behaving in an absorbed and occupied with oneself ... you will realize that any form of communication is next to impossible.  It is something one has to learn in order for you to deal with them effectively.

Experts always say that emotional immaturity is not a diagnosis per se as a mental health disorder ... but this behavior is a part and parcel of a narcissistic personality disorder or borderline personality disorder.

Sino Ba Ang Immature

 



Matanong nga ... Sino nga ba ang immature?

a. yong mahilig magpatama or magparinig sa Twitter

b. yong salo ng salo sa usapan eh wala naman ang pangalan niya.

c. yong feeling niya bawat issue siya ang pinag-usapan.

d. yong sawsaw ng sawsaw sa pagcomment kahit hindi niya kilala ang pinag-usapan.

e. yong comment ng comment just for the sake of commenting

f.  all of the above

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