Mangutang Ka Para Sa Utang

Good News: Nakabayad ka na ng utang.

Bad News: Nangutang ka ... para may pambayad sa utang?

Bata ... ano ba ang hanap mo SOLUTION ba ... or COMPLICATION?

Hindi Nakakahiya Ang Mangutang

 

I want to emphasize na hindi NAKAKAHIYA ang mangutang.

Ang NAKAKAHIYA ay yong taong nagtatago para hindi magbayad ng utang.

Mas lalong NAKAKAHIYA yong taong hindi nagbabayad kahit may pambayad naman.

NAKAKAHIYA rin yong mga taong sila pa ang galit kung sila ay sinisingil.

Lalong NAKAKAHIYA  yong siningil ka lang ... sila pa ang nang-away, ginawa kang masama at naglabas pa ng pangil.

Maniwala ka kung hindi ka marunong magbayad ng utang ... kahit anong kayod mo hindi ka aasenso. TAGUAN mo man ang iyong utang ... MATATAGPUAN ka rin ng kamalasan.

Hindi deserve ng NAGPAUTANG ang maghintay ng iyong pagbayad. Bakit noong nag-utang ka ba ikaw ba'y pinaghintay?

HORI7ON(호라이즌) ‘SUMAYAW SUMUNOD’ M/V

Entitlement Issues?

 

You have entitlement issues ... if :

1. Aawayin mo ang parents mo ... tapos kunyari lalayas ka ...at ine-expect mo na hahabolin ka ng parents mo at pigilan na huwag kang umalis.

2. Feeling entitled ka ... na everytime may kaaway ka ... kahit alam mong mali ka ... sa tingin mo tama ka pa rin.

3. Feeling entitled ka ... kung everytime na may kaaway ka ... ikaw ang inaalo at sila ang sumusuko at nakipagsundo.

4. Feeling entitled ka ... kung kaya mong baluktotin ang katotohanan at kaya mong sumira at maglubid ng kwento against your family para maiwasan mong ikaw ang mapagusapan.

5. Feeling entitled ka ... that despite the problems you have created ... pakiramdam mo obligasyon ng pamilya mo ang sumalo sa iyo.

6. Feeling entitled ka ... kung sa tingin mo libre lang palipat-lipat at papalit-palit ng tirahan assuming na welcome ka sa paglipat mo at feeling free board and lodging ka pa.

7. Feeling entitled ka ... kung sa paglipat mo ... hihimurin mo ang tumbong ng nilipatan mo ... sabay sira doon sa mga kumokontra.

8. Feeling entitled ka ... kung ang tingin mo LIBRE ang lahat ... without even thinking kung ano ang mai-ambag mo.

9. Feeling entitled ka ... kung ayaw mong harapin ang mga problema mo na sadyang ginawa mo para magkaproblema ka.

10. Feeling entitled ka ... kung kaya mong pumasok sa problema ... and let your family solve the problem for you.

Questions About Entitlement

1, What is entitlement?

The entitlement mentality is defined as a sense of deservingness or being owed a favor when little or nothing has been done to deserve special treatment. It's the “you owe me” attitude. Entitlement is a narcissistic personality trait. 

2. How does an entitled person act?

Demanding special treatment, expecting other people to do things for them, not showing gratitude, and needing constant admiration are a few characteristics of people with a sense of entitlement. Such behavior can stem from upbringing or personality disorders and can be devastating for relationships.

3. What causes people to feel entitled?

In some cases, after experiencing maltreatment, unfairness or neglect, some people develop an entitled attitude. For example, a child who is deprived of love and affection may grow up to demand it from others because they did not receive it at a young age.

5. How do you stop being entitled?

1. The golden rule. Practice treating others as you would like to be treated. ...
2. Recognize that not all situations are unfair. If you're in an unfair situation, pause for a minute and think about the greater good. ...
3. Respect. 
4. ‌Learn from your mistakes.

4. How do you shut down an entitled person?

1. Avoid them, if and when possible. Engaging with selfish people usually leads to negative results. ...
2. Set clear boundaries. Call them out when their behavior becomes too much. ...
3. Educate them on the risks they face. Selfishness has many negative impacts you can bring up.

Comic Relief

Now it can be told. Kaya pala half-smile yong kuha ni Mona Lisa ... at tipid pa. May nagdi-direk pala (Leonardo da Vinci ?) na iwasan ang full-blown smile for aesthetic purposes.

The Irony Of Life

It is a big irony.

Ikaw ang TINATAKBOHAN ng lahat ... pag sila ay  may problema.

Pag ikaw naman ang may problema ... para kang nagiisa ... pakiramdam mo NAGSIPAG-TAKBOHAN ang lahat at ayaw nilang ma-involve sa iyo.