Health is Wealth

Count your blessings. Hindi lahat ng grasya at biyaya ay pera. Take for instance your HEALTH. Biyaya yan.

Ewan ko ba ... hindi ko maintiendihan ang logic ng isang tao na ang bigay na biyaya sa kanya ay ... GOOD Health.

Maganda nga ang estado ng kalusugan mo ... eh bakit naghahanap ka ng martilyo na pamalo sa ulo mo. Physically you are A-okay ... pero your mental health is in question. Bakit ka umiinom, naninigarilyo and why are you into drugs? Gusto mo ng cancer? Ng cirrhosis of the liver? O gusto mo lang ng panandaliang aliw?

Yan pala ang hanap mo eh. Ituloy mo lang yan ... one of these days babagsak ang Damocles sword ... ang bagay na hindi mo inaasam at pinapangarap ... ay kusang lalapit sa iyo.

Ginusto mo ... e di ibigay.  No problem!

Irony of Ironies

And here is another irony? Walang nagsabi sa iyo na uminom ka ... or maninigarilyo ... or mag-drugs. Decision mo yan ... walang nagpilit sa iyo. Too many good-hearted souls reminded you ... how you abused your health and your freedom.  Pero ano ang sabi mo? "Buhay ko po ito."

And then nagkasakit ka nga... cancer of the lungs. The realization that you are not after all invincible nags you to death. Of all people, sa isang taong hindi marunong makinig ... umiiyak din pala. At sa bibig mo mismo nanggaling ... gusto mong gumaling ... at kailangan magpahospital. And you are pleading for second chances?

Stupid much? Kung kailan Stage 4 na iyong cancer mo ... gusto mo pang gumaling? Nagiisip ka ba? Hospital?  Hindi biro ang magpahospital. You will leave your family in a total financial mess ... na balewala lang sa iyo ... na parang isang LARO lang.

Ang pagsisisi talaga ay natatagpuan sa huling chapter ng buhay ng bawat tao.  Aanhin mo man ang good health ... kung hindi ka na good health ... aber?

Indeed. those who play with MATCHSTICKS ... are playing with FIRE! 

Moral lesson?  Don't play with FIRE if you don't want to get BURNED!

Are You Being Used Part 3

For Boyfriend/girlfriend ... take the cue from here,  Some indicators could help you if he is into you or just using you. Is he in a relationship with you to show off ... peer pressure ... or do family expectations?   Or was he in a relationship with you because of money or just sex? Does he treat you like an option instead of a priority? 

And why are there commitment issues?  Does he fear the relationship, such as fear of being hurt, fear of being with the wrong person, fear of things not working out, and other relationship-related anxieties?

Are you in an unhealthy relationship that is often characterized by: controlling behaviors, mistrust, disrespect, and poor communication?

Read on to explore a few signs that he is using you 

1. You are an open book ... and you feel he is a closed book with too many secrets on the side.

2. He is hesitant introducing you to his parents or siblings.

3. You don't know where he lives ... When ask he just feels uncomfortable.

4.  Your conversations lack vitality ... others are blockbusters while yours are lackluster.

5.  You haven't met any of his friends ... let alone ... anyone he knows.

6.  You ruined his day when you open up topics on intimacy ... and marriage is a big NO-NO.

7.  You gave too many favors ... too many gifts too ... while he offers none.

8.  You have a communication gap ... he is reluctant to express views and opinions.

9.  He talks about current events, politics, or the NBA finals... but he is mum about what you are to him.

10 He seems distant and cold. There is no emotion involved when you are together.

11. You know little about his personal life ... as in zilch.

12. He looked like he has ulterior motives ... and just leading you on.

13. He gets upset ... if you start to ask questions.

14. He is always busy ... and doesn't have time for you.

15. His needs come first over yours.

16.  He says he loves you but action speaks louder than words.

17.  You end up picking up the bill wherever you go 

18. You are the only one making the effort ... to make your relationship works.

19. You don't feel special.  He is not there to please you ... and he is not thoughtful.

20. He is just having sex ... and not making love to you

Responding To Netizens Comment

Netizen: I just love your posts on Are You Being Abused? I have a question though ... when is the best time to end a relationship?

Response: There is no magic formula for a successful BF/GF or parent/children relationship. We give second chances (sometimes 6 to 10 times more) but when all indications point to the fact that it is not working and you are being abused, some relationships are not worth saving.

If you tried every other option to give the relationship a second breath of life, but the other party is not ready and prepared to make any adjustment or maybe change for the better, the time has come to bail out and quit.

If the person has no intention to modify his old abusive habits walking away from the relationship is a welcome option and may be the best alternative to protect your overall welfare and state of health.

One should remember that all relationships are unique and different from each other.  When you have a bad hair day ... emotions are running high and you can be petulant, resentful, and testy. And it can be denied that the aforementioned feelings can inundate and spill over .... even in relationships that have stood the test of time.

When abuse is present and you became a willing doormat and a fall guy for your partner it is imperative to remind yourself that you deserve better - a marriage where you feel safe, happy, and respected.

If you suspect that you might be involved in an unhealthy relationship, spend some time considering the impact it has on your life, whether these issues can be fixed, and whether it might be time to end the relationship.

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DESERVE Mo Yan!

Meron akong kilalang tao ... kapag may nakitang bago ... kumikislap pa ang mata habang sinasabi ang linyang ... DESERVE ko yan!"

When Apple made a teaser about Apple iPhone 14 Pro Max ...the only thing he said was: deserve ko yan. Kesehodang maabot na ang bumbunan ng 100K, he made true to his promise ... at ngayon buong ningning niyang pinangalandakan sa mga kaibigan ang mamahaling cellphone.

When Maroon 5 and Justin Bieber made their rare appearance in Manila nangunguna sa listahan ang kaibigan naming ito to fall in line sa queue. "Deserve ko rin ma-entertain once in a while." At hindi basta nakontento sa General Admission (P2500) ang hinayupak ... pinili pa ang Patron Side (P23,500). Napakamahal naman ng price ng pagka-deserve niya,

Avid patron din siya ng Lazada at Shoppee.  Halos lahat yata ng bagay DESERVE niya. 

One time nakita namin siya at para siyang basang sisiw ... at may problema.  May financial problem daw ... which he termed it as ... na-short lang.

Huwag mo nga kaming ululin! 

Kapag wala ka nang pera at gabundok ang utang ... DESERVE mo rin yan!

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