Chill Bro!

I am good at making advice, and there are things I advise that I don't practice in real life. Practice what you preach ... so they say. So I also need to listen to myself once in a while.  

During family disputes, all parties need to chill.  It really pays to wait until everyone is calm and sober to prevent the verbal tussle from escalating into a full-blown free-for-all argument.  Stay in your room, and have a good sleep.  The intensity of emotions will recede when the heat of the moment melts off.

The grace period will make you see the issues sensibly vis a vis emotionally.  Wait for another day ... so hold your punches ... brother!